I've put out the Blogger Batlight twice, before, I think.
One of my favorite reads, Real Live Lesbian, from Nashville, is experiencing tragedy and heartache right now; a friend lost in an airplane accident.
If you've experienced tragedy, you'll know what a kind word will mean. Give her some love, if you've got it.
If you've never experienced tragedy, Give her some love still; you'll understand when you're on deck.